They’ve probably moved on into other relationships, or they’ve assumed you’ve moved on. Try to look at your broken relationship through your ex’s eyes. If you’re still in love with an ex, it’s only because you still choose to hold on to that flight of fancy because as much as it hurts you, it still makes you happy deep inside.īut what about your ex? Do you think they still love you? Almost always, the chances are slim and almost nonexistent. As much as we hate love for those beautiful memories, it’s not love that’s making life miserable for us. Love can be so depressing at times, don’t you think?īut let’s face it. ĭoes your ex pop into your dream now and then? Do you wake up in the morning feeling so happy, and yet so hurt? When you hear some bad news about your ex, or if you find out that your ex is now single and ready to mingle, do you secretly hope for a second chance? You may not want to date your ex again in reality, but in your thoughts and dreams, you paint a beautiful picture where both of you walk into each other’s arms in a perfect setting and share a warm embrace that you can feel to your very core. Can dreams ever hurt so much or memories ever make you miss someone so much? You’d want to know what your ex is up to, you’d want to bump into them now and then, and you’d want to touch them and hold them, and share another of those last kisses. When the love for your ex resides somewhere deep in your heart, you can’t help but look out for ways to keep it alive.
Oh, the irony of exes and old love and the sick humor it brings to life. You get to remember those happy days and those happy times, but yet, each time you open your eyes, you feel nothing but pain because all those memories are nothing but wisps of empty memories that most certainly may never come true again.īut yet, you can’t help yourself, can you? You just want to swim in that ocean of misery and pain, because somehow, somewhere deep within, the same misery shares its space with a tingle of happiness. ĭaydreaming or stargazing with thoughts of your ex is a bitterly beautiful experience. If your ex has truly moved on and has shown no signs of wanting to get back with you, there’s nothing you can ever do about it.
What could I get out of writing a letter expressing my feelings? More anticipation, more confusion and more pain. My ex has moved on, and by walking through that old road again, I’m only opening my heart for more wounds to follow. Have you ever felt like writing to your ex, a long letter that’s filled with the pain, confusion and the feelings you have bottled up within? I do too, but as much as my fingers itch to write a heartfelt note, I know that its better I don’t. Sometimes, you have to let go of love even if you’re not ready. But we can’t always have all that we wish for. Sometimes, you may be connected to an ex because there’s so much unfinished business in the air, questions that need answering, words that need to be said and so much more. But that doesn’t mean our hearts aren’t big enough to carry old love. And it could bring all the happiness in the world too. We could date someone else, and our heart may be filled with new love all over again. Ĭan one ever stop loving an old true love? And my blissfully painful reverie brings with it all the pain and misery I had locked within my heart, in a corner so deep I can’t even find it so I can throw it away. And soon, that moment lingers and stretches into a daydream. I’ve always convinced myself that I don’t love my ex anymore, but just when I start to believe I’ve completely gotten over my ex, he slips through the cracks within the spaces of my mind.Īnd as much as I try to push my ex’s face away from my mind, I can’t help but drop my resistance and enjoy the miserable moment for one moment longer. I still love my ex somewhere deep within me. Perhaps, if it was an ugly breakup or if it was a relationship that meant nothing, it may be very easy to get over an ex.īut what about getting over an ex with whom you shared true love? You can get over an ex, but can you ever stop loving an ex? If you’ve been in more than one relationship, you’ll know what I mean. But what about you, are you still in love with your ex? How does it affect you?Įxes are the reason that make love so meaningful and yet, so painful.Įxes help you realize just how memorable love is, and just how much it can hurt when love starts to go bad. I’m still in love with my ex and can’t block him out all the time.
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